Sunday, May 31, 2009

Love is....? (In response to Lilian's post dated 25/8/09)

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8Love never fails.


Hmmm... How about...? (please insert your name where you see MALCOLM and see if it works?)

  • MALCOLM is patient?
  • MALCOLM is kind?
  • MALCOLM does not envy?
  • MALCOLM does not boast?
  • MALCOLM is not proud?
  • MALCOLM is not rude?
  • MALCOLM is not self-seeking?
  • MALCOLM is not easily angered?
  • MALCOLM keeps no record of wrongs?
  • MALCOLM does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth?
  • MALCOLM always protects?
  • MALCOLM always trusts?
  • MALCOLM always hopes?
  • MALCOLM always perseveres?
  • MALCOLM never fails?

... Not sure about you, but looks like I have a loooooong way to go...



MAL
:-P

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Goodbye? ICPU buddies... ;-(

I really hate saying goodbyes...

Or do I?

It's been such an eventful year, I don't know what to say...

So many things happened, so many new friends made, so many things I learnt not only about others, but about myself as well...

I know I'm going to miss alot of people, you ICPU guys...

I love all of you guys, those who in the course of these few months became family to me, stood up for me through thick and thin, and walked beside me in suffering, and laughed and enjoyed with me through triumphs...

Thanks...

Naiz
Yasmin
Terence
Rui Heng
Hexen (mui2)
Andy
Jules
Mathew
Sasi
Ammeee
Keng
Iylia
Ainaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Fyqah
Lilian
Grace
Xin Ying
Chook Teng (Ah Teng Ah)
Nian Yi
Philip
Alfie
Michael
Wen2
Elaine
Natallie
Kaihan
Shawn
Laily
Dee dee
Denise
Jason
Wen Fei
Jeff
Wai Chuen
Ding
Aish
Dayana (Na na)
Jay-Zee
Jou May
Azira
Amirah
Lin Xin
Tee
Thillaga
Niroshaa
Surya
Paalini
Ah Kin Ah
Zul
Bainin
Wei Yik
Shu Woon
Xiang Rong
Allyssa
Windy


In no order of preference, thanks guys... And all those that I missed out, i'm sorry, there's just wayyyyyy too many of you, don't mean I don't love you too, k? :-)

I LOVE YOU guys... If I could i'd give each of you a BIGGGGGGGG hug!!! (Unfortunately some of you dun take hugs from guys like me *sob* )

All of you... I really do love you guys...

As a collective, and also as an individual :)

I'm sure i'll miss you...


MAL
:-P

P/S : Dun miss me TOO much, k? xD

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

A Deep Sense of Happiness :)

It is weird...

It is weird to think that what happens to others can directly affect your feelings...

Like when something good happens to your friends or family, you feel happy?

I know I am!!!

Life's good...

Look at the bright side of life...

Forget the dark side...

Coz we don't need it...

Smile with those who want to smile with you...
Smile with those who don't want to...

Be glad that there are those who are comfortable with you...
Be glad that there are those who are not...

Realize that not everything works out the way you want it to...
But thank God, it works out for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose :)


Fear not, but love xD


MAL
:-P

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Hey, Wake Up!!!

Wake up man!!!

Hello world!!! :)

Time to wake up now...

Hahahaha!!!

Lets see...


Man make machines that do simple functions...
Because they are lazy to do them by themselves?
And waste 3 months completing such machines???
xD

I have to say, i'm intrigued... xD


I found out my previous posts have been quite emo?
Hmm... Interesting... But hey, why SHOULD we be emo?
(Assignment stress kot...) xD

Lets live our lives guys!!! We have only... A few days left here in college :(

Lets make the best out of this...

I WILL miss u guys... ;-(


But now...

THE FINAL LAP!!!


Heb 12:1  
Therefore let us also, seeing we are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,

And thus, let us finish FIRST!!! :)


MAL
:-P

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Would You Be There?

Unfair and illogical questions to ask?

I don't know...

But I really would want to know...

If one of these days I would breathe my last breath in this world...

Would you would be there at my funeral?
Would you shed a tear for me?
Would you look back at photographs of me and smile?
Would you take some time to sit down and think of what i've ever been, if i ever have been anything to you?
Would you comfort my family, those close to me, even if you don't know them?
Would you step into church to pay your last respects, knowing that that's where my body will be?
Would you remember me for more than a few days? Weeks? Months?
Would you say something at my funeral? If you did, what would you say?
Would you come back to see me, if you were far away?

Cause I just want to know...

Would you be there?
Do you care?


MAL

Monday, May 11, 2009

No Turning Back...

Look back at your promise, my boy...
Remember who you were raised to be...
Remember what you are to be to those around you...
Remember the One whom you have chosen to follow...

No turning back...

Remember that you always wanted to put those around you first...
Remember that you always showed pity to those who needed it...
Remember you always loved those around you, no matter who they were...
Remember that you always knew where to look when troubles came...

No turning back...

Remember that you'd never let those around you suffer on your own accord...
Remember that you'd say with pride your good points yet be humble in your actions...
Remember that you'd lead people and not demand anything in return...
Remember that you'd help anyone in need and keep the deed silent...

No turning back...

You'd walk the straight path and never stray...
You'd never let feelings get in your way...
You'd let true smiles be what you play...
You'd never let satan rue the day...

No turning back, my boy...

It's time to look back at the mirror again...
View not the past, scorn not the rain...
No more yourself view just a bane...
To live is Christ, to die is gain!!!



MAL
:-P

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

A Leader?

The normal perception is to think that a leader is one who would just "lead" by name, order everybody around, take all the credit and then just laze off with a great name...

The question then thrown is, a TRUE leader... Is that what he/she does?

In all sincerity, I have to disagree... By definition, a leader is one who LEADS... (Like, DUH!!!)


MALCOLM'S DEFINITIONS!!!

A leader is...
One who can relate to his people...
One who understands them...
One who can see his people by their strengths, not their weaknesses...
One who will understand that being spat at, scorned upon and laughed at by others is normal...
One who can differentiate between his enemies and his friends...
One who will not let his personal life interfere with his line of duty...
One who is willing to cover up and take the blame for the shortcomings of his members...
One who sees the potential, not "uselessness" in a person...
One who looks at something (or someone) and sees what "can be", not what "is"...
One who takes success as motivation and failure as the beginning of success...
One who does not fear being rejected by his own people...
One who does not fear the truth...
One who is willing to make a decision, stick with it and face the consequences, whatever it be...

Not possible?

Maybe...

I know of one man who walked the face of the Earth who did it...

And so, I shall try to do so too...

And if I never become as such? I shall die trying...


MAL
:-P

P/S : And i'm sorry to my own leaders, I know it's tough being a leader... But just hang in there... As long as you try your best, your people remember you... And in the end... That's all that matters...

Being a leader isn't a promotion...
It's a burden...
But bear it with pride...
Your members... THEY are your pride and joy...
Take pride in them, for in the end when all else fails...
THEY will be what's left...

Monday, May 4, 2009

I Remember a Time When...

I remember a time when all I needed to know was Mom and Dad...

I remember a time when I used to talk (alot), and never fear saying something wrong...

I remember a time when I used to crawl around writing on walls, just knowing that I liked it...

I remember a time when fights and arguments were so easily settled among my friends and I, in a few minutes, we would be holding hands and playing together again...

I remember a time when dressing up in all kinds of costumes and clothes was just plain fun and that no one would ever comment about it...

I remember a time when I would just laugh at anything that I thought was funny, and that I actually had a proper sense of humour, not a fake one to live up to society's thoughts...

I remember a time when somebody would say that I liked a certain girl, and like any other boy, I would go "bluek" :)

I remember a time when holding hands with another girl or guy is considered "cute", not looked upon with scorn nor slanderous views by society...

I remember a time when every friend looked the same to me, no matter what race, what custom or WHATEVER they were...

I remember a time when a kiss meant something "yucky" and that we closed our eyes... (At least during movies...)

I remember a time when school seemed like something fun to do, and that I would never skip school even if I was "sick until can die"...

I remember a time when death meant nothing but that someone goes to a place far far away and that I would see him or her again next time...

I remember a time when a friend is one whom I can trust with anything, anything at all, and trust can never be "betrayed"... Such a word never even existed...

I remember a time when I was told to "never talk to strangers", especially those who offer ice cream or lollipops or any kind of sweet stuff...

I remember a time when "junk food" was all the treasure in the world, and that nothing could ever replace the joy of finishing school and walking outside to buy "junk food" from the old Ah Pek...

I remember a time when a lie was something never even thought of, because there was no reason to do so...

I remember a time when crying was not an embarrassing thing, and that everyone cries some time or another...

I remember a time when there was no need to hide pain and fear, that everybody could understand and be symphatetic towards that fear...

I remember a time when there was no such thing as foul language, any word I knew of was pure and clean...

I remember a time when life meant just being who I am and living in accordance to the plan set up by my parents, and the people and a God who loves me...



May we ALL return to the time we once remember...


MAL
:-P